We will. But there are a couple of things you ought to know.

I understand that you're proud, and that what happened here was terrible. But that doesn't mean it's good for you, mentally, to have to bury your own friends. I'm not asking for anything in return, because I've been in this situation before.

I know you hate us, and if there's a reason for it it's one I've never heard. But we're here offering to help now. If you would really rather do this yourself, I'm not going to ask again. But the offer is there, and I'd appreciate it if you'd at least give it some serious thought.